You are probably familiar with the idea that Christmas has roots in pagan traditions. Maybe you have a vague notion that Christmas was borrowed from the winter solstice or some ancient Roman holiday. But you’re busy Christmas shopping. You have holiday travel coming up. You have stockings to hang and trees to decorate. You certainly don’t have the time to go researching the origins of Christmas.
The truth is, I was in the same boat. I had heard that once upon a time pagan celebrations were coopted by Christmas. And that was about all I knew. But I have always wanted to learn more about this idea. And, knowing that there is so much herstory in pagan traditions, I wanted to find out what lost herstory the holiday might hold. Now that I know how much Christmas owes to a feminine tradition, I will never look at Santa the same way again. And, after discovering these five hidden herstories of Christmas, neither will you.
1. Kissing Under the Mistletoe
Kissing under the mistletoe can be traced back to the Norse goddess Frigg(a) whose son Baldr was killed by a mistletoe spear. When the gods brought Baldr back to life, Frigga declared that, from then on, people passing under mistletoe should kiss in celebration. 
While few people today would credit Frigga with this tradition, “[t]he church seems to have known of the links to a pagan religion, because traditionally mistletoe is not included among the greenery that decorates churches at Christmas.” 
2. Christmas Eve and Christmas Day
Once upon a time, Christmas Eve was known as “Mothers' Night,” a festival held on the eve of Yule that celebrated The Mothers.
The very fact that Christmas is celebrated on December 25th may have been borrowed from pagan traditions.
In addition to the more well known celebration of Saturnalia, winter festivals included Yule—a celebration of the children born after Mothers' Night, and Koliada—a celebration of the sun goddess Koliada.  Dísablót, the midwinter festival honoring the disir (the spirits of female ancestors)  was a private celebration for family and friends,  much like today’s Christmas.
So what might these widespread winter celebrations have to do with the date of Christmas?
3. The Christmas Tree and Christmas Carols
The Christmas tree is by far the most iconic symbol of the season. The beloved evergreen is a holiday staple for Christian homes, and has been adopted by countless non-Christian holiday-lovers.
Of all the holiday's traditions, the Christmas tree might have the most ancient and varied roots in a pre-Christian world.
According to the Encyclopædia Britannica, “The use of evergreen trees, wreaths, and garlands to symbolize eternal life was a custom of the ancient Egyptians, Chinese, and Hebrews. Tree worship was common among the pagan Europeans and survived their conversion to Christianity.” The “Christmas tree” was as common in pagan Rome and Egypt as it is today. In Rome the tree was a fir, but in Egypt it was a palm tree. 
When you decorate your homes with wreaths and Christmas greenery, think about this:
So, too, does the Christmas tree have roots in early Judaism. The ancient Israelite goddess Asherah was worshipped by erecting “Asherah poles,” which were either carved wooden poles or trees.  “Just as early Christians recruited Roman pagans by associating Christmas with the Saturnalia, so too worshippers of the Asheira cult and its offshoots were recruited by the Church sanctioning ‘Christmas Trees.’” 
And the Christmas tree has other herstoric pagan roots as well. Roots buried in the rich soil of Mothers' Night.
In the Viking saga Erik the Red, on Mothers' Night a traveling winter seer would pay the locals a visit. She carried a tall, decorated staff and was greeted with a feast and incantations sung to summon the spirits of midwinter. 
The seer’s staff symbolized—you guessed it—a tree. That decorated “tree” was an early ancestor of the beautiful evergreen you have sparkling in your living room, and the sacred songs sung to the seer were precursors of today’s Christmas carols. 
4. Down the Chimney and Through the Hearth
What’s more Christmas-y than chestnuts roasting on an open fire, the Yule log burning, and stockings hung by the chimney with care? What childhood Christmas is complete without the time-old tale of Santa coming down the chimney? No matter how intrinsic these traditions are to this Christian holiday, the fireplace—the hearth—and the Christmas traditions that surround it, are rooted in herstory.
The tradition of celebrating the hearth comes from the goddess Hestia, whose name means “hearth,”  while families used to wait for the goddess Hertha to descend through the chimney bearing her gifts long before there was a Santa Claus. 
5. Santa’s Sleigh and Holiday Wishes for Peace on Earth
The Roman writer Tacitus tells us that at midwinter the goddess Nerthus—whose name was synonymous with Mother Earth—rode a “sleigh-like wagon” pulled by oxen. Wherever she went, she spread holiday cheer and peace. “It [was] a time of festive holiday-making in whatever place she deign[ed] to honour.” Along with bringing holiday cheer, wherever Nerthus went, “nobody [went] to war, nobody [took] up arms.” 
There are loud echoes of Nerthus’ sleigh-like wagon in Santa’s sleigh. Of course the oxen (or cats!) became reindeer, and the sleigh now flies, but one thing remains unchanged in the millennia since Mother Earth was the central figure of Christmas. Wherever Santa goes, he brings holiday celebrations and (at least wishes for) peace on earth.
Christmas is Herstory, Too
For thousands of years the holiday season was a time to celebrate women. By learning this rich herstory, we pay homage to a women's power so pervasive that it can still be found within the wreaths and boughs of today's Christmas.
Will you hear echoes of Mother Earth in the jingle of Santa’s sleigh? Or remember Mothers' Night when you tuck your children in on Christmas Eve? Let me know! Have something to add? I'd love to learn more! Contact us and let us know, and please share your sources.
With wishes for peace, and Happy Holidays to all, whatever roots your trees may grow from.